We're back! Kelsi and I arrived late Tuesday night, feeling like we woke up from a dream. We had to ask each other, "Did that really happen?"
Here is a quick summary of our trip to London:
Our first day in London, we walked everywhere. We felt pretty good after our overnight flight, but I needed a steady flow of caffeine running through my veins. Thankfully, London has more than enough Starbucks to keep the most avid coffee drinker happy!
We started off in Trafalgar Square, and from there we walked to Buckingham Palace (and fought for a view of the changing of the guards), St. James Park, Westminster Abbey, Big Ben, the Eye, Shakespeare's Globe, Tower Bridge, the Tower of London, and St. Paul's Cathedral. We topped it off with a delicious dinner and a bit of shopping at an outdoor market. We had a wonderful day walking and sightseeing, and we fell asleep as soon as our heads hit our pillows.
Our next days were spent visiting museums, walking through parks, and going to the theater. Seeing the Phantom of the Opera and looking at paintings by Monet, Leonardo da Vinci, and Van Gogh were huge highlights! It was amazing to see the famous landmarks on our first days in London, but in my opinion, it was equally fun to walk through the parks and visit the less famous sights. London is so beautiful, and I am so grateful we had an opportunity to explore for a few days.
London and Lusaka are pretty much opposites. Any sense of culture shock we have had in America has been diminished greatly by our stopover journey. We were both amazed at the clean, extravagant city with more white people than we had seen in months. We felt different in other ways, too. Although we have both hardly cared about our appearance the past few months (ask us about our permantly dirt-stained feet), we found ourselves feeling self-conscious around the fashionable men, women, and even children.
Speaking of the children, we couldn't help but compare our kids in Africa to the ones in London. Our kids explore the streets alone; some of the children in London were attached to leashes. Our kids wear the same stained, ripped shirt for days; the children in London looked straight out of a magazine.
London and Lusaka represent two opposite ends of the spectrum, and occasionally harsh thoughts popped into my head: "You don't even know what how good you have it! Don't you realize how they live in Africa??" However, I must admit that throughout my life, I have been much closer to the London end of the spectrum myself.
Why do some have so much and others have so little? This is a question that continues to be posed throughout history. It doesn't seem fair that some live in plenty and others in want. However, one of the most important lessons that I learned during our time in Africa is that money truly doesn't bring happiness. Just watch our kids play at the seminary, and you will agree! True contentment does not increase with the amount of things that we possess. Take it from Paul, a man who lived in both situations: "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well-fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want."
So if we don't need "stuff," what do we really need? Just God. That is the only thing that will bring everlasting happiness and joy. "Do not store up for yourselves treasure on earth, where moth and rust destroy, but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal" (Matt. 6:19). Another verse that I will continue to remind myself of is Hebrews 13:5 - "Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, 'Never will I leave you, never will I forsake you.'"
We have been blessed in America with material blessings. These are from God, and we should thank and praise him for what he's given us. However, I know that I personally struggle with getting distracted by "stuff" instead of living for eternity. My hope and prayer for the days, weeks, and years ahead is that even as I live in one of the richest countries in the world, I rely on God, storing up treasures in heaven instead of storing up treasures on earth.
We cannot even express how unbelievably grateful we are for the life-changing experience we had in Africa. We both pray that we can return someday and visit our friends there. Please continue to keep the Lutheran Church of Central Africa and the missionaries in your prayers that they may continue to spread the gospel throughout Zambia and Malawi.
Kelsi will post one more blog, and then we will be signing off. Thank you all for reading and following us on this adventure. We have appreciated your thoughts and prayers so much throughout the past few months!
God's blessings!
Thursday, May 28, 2015
Saturday, May 23, 2015
Final Full Day
It was a bitter-sweet day as we wrapped up our final
classes and tutoring here in Lusaka.
Friday fun-day developed a whole new meaning with it being our last
day. We planned a day full of fun where
we could just enjoy spending the last few moments with the people who have
grown to be our family for the past 3.5 months.
At our morning tutoring session, Owen read everyone the
Lion King from a coloring book Mel brought along. He read it all the way from beginning to
end! When he first started I kept
thinking, “There is no way these kids are going to sit listen to him read this
entire coloring book.” But they all did
and they loved it! They sat and giggled
at the pictures and listened so intently.
It was such a sweet moment. Once
Owen finished the book we ripped out some pages for them to color and we also
had some crossword puzzles they could do.
Definitely fun-Friday at its finest.
Between tutoring and our last session with the ladies,
we spent quite a few hours making sure our house is squeaky clean for the next
guests in just a few short days.
We planned a special day to celebrate all of the hard
work the ladies put in these last few months and little did we know, the women
planned a little something special for us.
When we did a session on food, we realized most of the women had never
had pizza or cookies! We ordered some
Debonair’s Pizza and made some amazing chocolate chip cookies (if I do say so
myself). We women really enjoyed both -
it was quite funny to watch them eat their pizza in interesting ways. Ripping little chunks off at a time while the
pizza is held in their hand face down was a normal sight. I guess we never taught them so whatever
works!! The women also all wrote down
the cookie recipe and our email addresses after we wrote them up on the
board.
After we all enjoyed pizza and cookies, Christabel came
and wrapped Mel and I in our green chitenges which we received as a gift from
Charity the preschool teacher on campus.
We really felt like one of the ladies - that was the first time we felt
like the chitanges were actually going to stay up! As we remembered Clara and Christabel say
from the previous day, “First we will dance, then we will cry!” And that is exactly what happened…
From there, the ladies started to sing and do-si-do. First they showed us, then they made us
join. It was so fun to see everyone
dancing, clapping, singing and having a good time! Some songs were in English and others were
not but we caught on to the dance movies and clapping pretty quickly.
One of
our favorites:
Jesus loves me, and he loves you too
Come
and see how much he cares for you
You
will never find a friend so true
Jesus
loves me, and he loves you too
The speeches and sad good-byes concluded with tears and
hugs. Those ladies are so phenomenal and
something about hearing them say, “I love you!” as they came up to us made
see-you-laters so heart-warming. We will
miss them all so dearly but we pray to see them again someday… This side of
heaven or when we meet at Jesus feet.
Next, we ventured to say our goodbyes to Mrs. Nyrenda,
Anna and Charity. We shared some
pictures and cards with them and expressed our gratitude. They were so extremely welcoming from the
minute we arrived and it made our stay so amazing and unforgettable. Mrs. Nyrenda said she was going to enjoy
having our picture up with all of the other pictures she had received from
girls who have come.
Onward to the children!
We had planned some play time with the children before saying our last
goodbyes. As usually, we enjoyed playing
volleyball, frisbee and jump ropes. Mel
stayed strong with playing volleyball for a good hour while I went and sat by a
couple of kids who were sitting out. We
moved by the small creek that runs through campus to watch the dads play soccer
on the other side. The kids enjoyed
playing with my hair for so long! Mel
and I took several pictures with the kids and then announced that we NEEDED
hugs before we left. Some of the middle
school boys immediately fell to the ground - we just had to laugh. We gave each kiddo a giant hug and told them
we would miss them so incredibly much.
We had such a great turnout for that last session and it was such a
blessing to spend some quality time with them before we left.
There were a couple of kids out working in the gardens,
sick, or at school so we made our way to around to give out some last few
hugs. It was sad saying goodbye to such
amazingly sweet kids but Mel and I know they will grow up to be such great
contributors and leaders in whatever capacity God places them.
We closed our day with a perfect celebration with all
of the missionaries and pastors from campus.
We enjoyed a delicious meal at Rhapsody’s, exchanged gifts and many
thanks. After supper we went to the top
of the Protea Hotel where we could see the city of Lusaka at night time. It was so beautiful and a wonderful time to
pause and reflect on all of our experiences we have had here.
As I write this, Mel and I are just putting the
finishing touches on packing and getting ready to head out for our flight in a
couple of hours. We can’t believe how
quickly time has come and gone. It was
plenty of time to become extremely attached to everyone here and goodbyes came
way to quickly… Our cup overflows with
blessings from this trip and as we told everyone yesterday, we will never
forget this experience. We will be spending
two nights in London on our way back but we can’t wait to see everyone when we
get come. We will both take a turn
posting when we return from London!
God’s blessings to you this Memorial Day weekend.
Hugs from Africa,
Kelsi and Melanie
Tuesday, May 19, 2015
All Kinds of Emotions
Our final week....unreal! People keep asking us how we feel, and Kelsi and I agree that at any given moment, a new emotion bubbles to the surface.
Sadness
Our number one emotion! We cannot believe that our home in Lusaka will be only a distant memory in a couple of weeks. We are both praying that God blesses us with the opportunity to return to Zambia someday and reunite with the amazing people here, but for now, we are sad to think of saying good bye.
Excitement
As sad as we are to leave our new friends, we are excited to see our old friends and family. (That's you!) Although emails and Facebook have helped us keep in touch, it's obviously not the same!
Kelsi and I are excited for several little things, as well. We are eager to drive again (hopefully we won't forget which side of the road to drive on), find a wider selection at the grocery store (I think by now we've adequately described the unfortunate lack of Mexican food here), and (Melanie can't wait to) buy some bold Starbucks coffee.
Happiness
As bittersweet as this week has been, it has been full of many happy moments so far. Our fast-approaching departure has encouraged us to soak up as much play time as possible with our children. After our afternoon sessions, we've been playing Frisbee, volleyball, and soccer. We gave them bubbles, too - basically a guarantee of a good time. We played volleyball for an hour today, and the whole time, the kids were laughing hysterically. Amazingly, they never fight. Kelsi and I agree that we rarely see children who play as well as these kids do.
Thankfulness
Above all else, Kelsi and I are increasingly thankful this week. Sometimes in life, we need tearful good-byes and joyous reunions to remind us of God's great blessings. At the end of the day, being able to drive, grocery shop, and even drink Starbucks coffee is not that important. One of the most important blessings that God gives us in this life is our relationships with the people around us. These past three months have allowed us to connect with people from an entirely different culture and race. Even though we don't have much in common on the surface, we have been able to bond and create meaningful relationships. Best of all, we know that if we don't get to see them again in this life, we will see them in the next.
So how are we feeling? Good question! I wish I knew the answer. What I do know is that we have been so incredibly blessed. Today I am thankful for the sadness, because it means we have loved our time here. I'm thankful for the excitement, because it means we have loved ones back home. And I'm thankful for the happiness, because it means we have created memories to last a lifetime. God's blessings on your week!
P.S. In other news, a group of 25 nursing students/professors from WLC arrived in Lusaka this Monday. At first, it seemed so strange to see people from Wisconsin on the campus grounds. However, we have really enjoyed catching up with some of our old classmates and watching the whole group interact with the wives and their children. The kids love the extra attention! :)
Saturday, May 16, 2015
South Luangwa - Lions and Leopards and Hippos, oh my!
We have returned! After a total of over eighteen hours on the
road over the past four days, we have completed our last long journey before we
had home next week. We both have to say
we will not miss the eight hour cruiser rides to Chipata but we are so thankful
to have had a ride there-that we didn’t need to find a bus from Lusaka to
Chipata.
We left early Wednesday morning and
didn’t stop (other than restroom breaks) until we got to Marula Lodge. This lodge was so beautiful - located right
outside of the South Luangwa National Park and our tent was pitched right along
the Luangwa River. Fun fact: the Luangwa
River has the densest population of crocodile and hippo per kilometer than any
other river in the world! And… we were camping
along the banks. There was a small cliff
dividing our tent from the actual river bank.
Here is some pictures of where we stayed!
While we were there we had the opportunity to enjoy delicious
meals, relax by the pool and go on game drives.
We saw a lot more animals than we saw when we went camping in Kafue,
which is what we had been told. That has
been confirmed!
Highlights of the game drives:
·
A pride of lions was sleeping right
by the road during our morning drive.
There was a mother, a young male and several cubs sleeping, not even
phased by our vehicle. We felt like we
could have walked up to them and started petting them because they were so still. The driver assured us that if we took even
two steps out of the vehicle they would be awake in no time.
·
That same pride of lions was just
waking up when we came back during our night drive. There were more than five other game drive
vehicles parked to watch them as they one-by-one started to move about. Our tour guide Abram taught us all about how
lions hunt, the different formations they make, and the perfect time to hunt. We, and many others, were hoping to see a kill
happen but I think there was too much commotion going on. The scariest part was being in the pitch
black night, lions weaving in between the different vehicles and not being able
to see them all at once. You never know
when a lion is just going to jump out of no were onto a vehicle - highly
unlikely but the thought gave us a rush!
·
Abram received a call during our morning
drive saying that another group spotted a leopard. We quickly drove over and saw the female
leopard only for a brief moment off in the tall grass. As one vehicle started up and drove around,
the rest followed. We searched and searched
for the leopard but no one could find it.
Just as everyone decided to give up hope and leave, Abram suggested we
stay just a little longer. Not but five
minutes later, here comes the leopard out of the tall grass walking right in
front of our vehicle. Many have said we
were very lucky to see leopards out and about during the day time.
·
As we had our afternoon teatime out
in wild, we heard from others that there was something interesting in a tree
that we should go and check out. We had
been told it was a leopard with a kill. As we approached we saw the impala drooped
over a branch, so lifeless - it was quite sad, at least for me. Everyone else was highly intrigued! We drove right underneath the hanging impala
to find the leopard hanging out in a different tree. He was panting like crazy, probably after all
of that work dragging the impala up a tree.
It was so stomach turning but we were reminded - it’s a part of the circle
of life.
·
During our night drive, we stopped
to enjoy some coke and popcorn as we watched the sunset. We pulled up next to small body of water
where we could see hippos in the water and baby crocs along the edge. It was so beautiful to be out in the wild
watching the sun go down. Pictures
couldn’t capture the beauty so you will have to take our word for it!
Overall our trip to South Luangwa was very enjoyable. We have had so many wonderful opportunities while
here in Zambia and all possible because of the missionaries. Pastor Sargent has trucked us many miles to
help us experience these amazing places.
We are so thankful for all of them and we will miss them all
dearly! Prayers that you are enjoying a
wonderful Saturday! Enjoy the rest of
your weekend.
Hugs,
Kelsi and Melanie
Tuesday, May 12, 2015
Games with the Ladies
We had some hilarious moments with the ladies the past few days. Yesterday Kelsi taught a lesson on the face/senses, and her activity to practice was probably the ladies' favorite activity to date. We gave each woman a sheet of paper with a blank face, and on Kelsi's command, they drew a part of the face before passing their paper. For example, Kelsi's first instruction was to draw an eye; after about 10 seconds, she had them pass their papers so they were drawing on a new face for the next command. By the time Kelsi gave all of the instructions, there were eighteen completely ridiculous faces. I have never seen some of the ladies laugh so hard, and Kelsi and I were wiping tears from our eyes at one point. When our Internet cooperates, I will upload a couple of the masterpieces they created. I'm proud to say that the ladies' skills in English are better than their art!
We learned about the parts of the body today, and to practice, we played another fun game. (All of the credit goes to Kelsi on this one - she had great ideas this week!) I said a body part, and they had to find their partner and touch those parts together. For example, if I said "hand," they had to touch their hands together. The last pair to match up was eliminated. The women were excited to try it out after I explained the game, and when I demonstrated with Kelsi, one of the women yelled, "Hip!" to make us bump hips together. The women thought that was hilarious, so we decided to give them a taste of their own medicine. When there were only two pairs left, I called out, "Lips!" One woman started leaning into her partner before she realized what she was doing, while everyone else started laughing. I quickly interjected: "Just a joke!" before things got too awkward....
On Sunday, we said our good byes to Susan, Pastor Birner's wife. She is leaving very late tonight to fly to America for her daughter's high school graduation. She will return to Zambia just as we return to America, so we won't get to see her anytime soon. Sue is so funny and full of life, and we have been blessed to get to know her.
Lisa took us out to lunch after church on Sunday, and that was probably our last opportunity to spend quality time with her. She is very busy preparing for the nurses from WLC and her family to come visit in the next couple of weeks. Like all of the missionaries and their wives, Lisa has been so helpful and kind to us. God has richly blessed us with so many wonderful people here!
Things are really starting to wrap up here. Kelsi and I are beginning to get serious about organizing our supplies and our home in preparation for leaving next Saturday. We can't even process the fact that we are leaving so soon. Truly unbelievable how fast our time here has gone!
Tomorrow morning we leave for South Luangwa National Park. (It's taken me the entire three months we've been here to learn how to spell that correctly.) South Luangwa is highly acclaimed as one of the best game parks around, so we are very excited! Dan is driving to Chipata (his old home - a town near the Zambia/Malawi border), so he offered to swing us down to the park tomorrow afternoon. The park is over an hour away from Chipata, so it is really very kind that he offered! We are relieved to avoid the unreliable public transportation.
God's blessings! God willing, we will have a plethora of giraffe, elephant, and lion close-ups to share on Saturday!
We learned about the parts of the body today, and to practice, we played another fun game. (All of the credit goes to Kelsi on this one - she had great ideas this week!) I said a body part, and they had to find their partner and touch those parts together. For example, if I said "hand," they had to touch their hands together. The last pair to match up was eliminated. The women were excited to try it out after I explained the game, and when I demonstrated with Kelsi, one of the women yelled, "Hip!" to make us bump hips together. The women thought that was hilarious, so we decided to give them a taste of their own medicine. When there were only two pairs left, I called out, "Lips!" One woman started leaning into her partner before she realized what she was doing, while everyone else started laughing. I quickly interjected: "Just a joke!" before things got too awkward....
On Sunday, we said our good byes to Susan, Pastor Birner's wife. She is leaving very late tonight to fly to America for her daughter's high school graduation. She will return to Zambia just as we return to America, so we won't get to see her anytime soon. Sue is so funny and full of life, and we have been blessed to get to know her.
Lisa took us out to lunch after church on Sunday, and that was probably our last opportunity to spend quality time with her. She is very busy preparing for the nurses from WLC and her family to come visit in the next couple of weeks. Like all of the missionaries and their wives, Lisa has been so helpful and kind to us. God has richly blessed us with so many wonderful people here!
Tomorrow morning we leave for South Luangwa National Park. (It's taken me the entire three months we've been here to learn how to spell that correctly.) South Luangwa is highly acclaimed as one of the best game parks around, so we are very excited! Dan is driving to Chipata (his old home - a town near the Zambia/Malawi border), so he offered to swing us down to the park tomorrow afternoon. The park is over an hour away from Chipata, so it is really very kind that he offered! We are relieved to avoid the unreliable public transportation.
God's blessings! God willing, we will have a plethora of giraffe, elephant, and lion close-ups to share on Saturday!
Sunday, May 10, 2015
Feel Bad for Uuuuuuss!
My mind is racing today as I sit down to
write because of all of the things I am thankful for. Mel and I are continually thanking God so
much as we reflect on all of the amazing opportunities we have had here. Looking back on everything, we can see how he
was piecing the puzzle together for us before we even left America.
God has placed so many amazing people in
our lives, both the relationships we have with people in America and the
relationships that we have formed with people here. Countless times people have reached out to us
via social media, email, text messages, phone calls, etc. sharing with us their
thoughts and prayers and supporting us in this journey. We are thankful for your continued supper and
encouragement!
We also are so thankful for each and every person we have met during our
time here. We have already said “Til we
meet again” to the Hartmann’s and last night, our dear friend Molly. On Tuesday we will be saying “See you later!”
to Mrs. Birner…and shortly after that we will be giving many hugs and praying
God’s blessings to the amazing women and children we have been so blessed to
work with. Here are a few of our “last
minutes” we are squeezing in before we leave!
1. On our last day of
class we are hosting a food party! Pizza
and cookies are not very common and most of the women and children have not had
either. Mel and I are excited to share
with them a little taste of some of our favorites from back home. (As we have stated earlier in our blog
chocolate chips are not sold here so we will be making “broken candy bar
cookies” rather than “chocolate chip cookies”!)
2.
Next Wednesday we
are taking our final excursion and heading to South Luangwa. We are told that the game viewing there is
amazing and we can’t wait to see so many more beautiful animals. This time if there is a hippo outside our
tent during the middle of the night we will be sure to take some
pictures/videos! *fingers crossed*
3.
Chisamo and Vicki
want to go on one last outing together.
We think we are going to be able to experience an African movie
theater! We are excited to see how
similar the inside is compared to ones we have been to in America. We are even more excited to compare movie theater
popcorn… :D
4.
On the Friday before
we leave we are planning a giant game of kickball to enjoy each other’s
company. Any and all are invited so we
are hoping for a great turnout with some amazing people!
The thankfulness continues…
We
also have now realized how much God has allowed our minds (and bodies) to adapt
to living here. We both would agree we
were extremely uncomfortable when we first got here -- there are literally
people everywhere and 99.9% of the people we see on a daily basis are not
Caucasian. They also do not hesitate to
stare, smile, and greet us. We have adapted
to being ok with everyone staring although we will not miss that when we go
back home. The children and wives have
become much more comfortable with us as well and that’s what is going to make
goodbyes all the more harder. As Mel
wrote about earlier, a lot of the toddlers would run in extreme fear of us when
we first got here. The sounds that came
out of some of those children were excruciating and we just wanted them to let
us love them and hold them! Well we have
made leaps and bounds with most of them.
Mel talked about Chisomo in the last post - he was definitely the worst “scared
for my life” screamer of them all but now he is all smiles when he sees us
(well most of the time). Here are a few
more adorable cuties…
Benj: Benj always comes to tutoring with
his older sister Faith. This little boy
is a pistol and he is not afraid to tell people what he wants - even if it
means giving them a big old slap on the back.
Mel and I have had many opportunity to “teach him to treat one another
with love” even if he has no idea what we are saying we still try. He has become one of our best little
buddies. He often walks up to us and
lays his little head on our thigh as we are standing. Even when he is distraught for some reason or
another he comes by us and wipes his teary-eyed, snotty-nosed face on our
shoulders. Those big brown eyes though!
Beatrice: Beatrice is in the preschool
here but she likes to come and hang out every now and then at the school
children’s tutoring. Mel and I have to
chuckle when we see her waddling over before tutoring, looking like she just
rolled out of bed. She comes and slowly
gives us the biggest hugs if only to rest her head for a little while longer,
we think it is adorable. She loves to
just silently watch all that is going on at tutoring even if she is not
participating. Beatrice is such a smiley
kiddo and very helpful. She is so sweet…
Elisha: Elisha hangs out with mom at
class every day and frankly he likes to walk around wherever and whenever. This little boy is quite loud and Mel and I
often look at each other because we feel like we are in a yelling competition
when we are teaching.. a yelling competition that we are never going to
win. He is a very kind and helpful
little boy and he is highly entertained when he is able to crawl through our
legs while we are teaching. We can’t
help but giggle and the women get a good chuckle as well. He also thinks it is a fun game to through things
at us like shoes, oranges, pens, you name it!
Thankful to say his aim hasn’t developed to the fullest and we’ve only
been knocked a couple of times.
I have to give a shout out to Mel for
helping make this experience one that will never be forgotten. More and more times we are realizing that we
are starting to share some of the same crazy thoughts. Example:
Last night walking home from the Birner’s we both were expressing how
the weather has been so extremely beautiful the entire time we have been
here. We agreed that the cool weather at
night made for great sleeping. As we
walked across campus, we shivered and realized it was even cool enough to see
our breath! We chuckled and realized
that people back home would most likely be laughing at us for being so cold. We proceeded in a synchronized, whiny but
joking fashion and we both stated, “Feel bad for uuuuussss…” (Referring to all of you back home reading
this from a place not as warm as here J) We both burst into laughter and concluded
with, “We’ve been living together too long…”
Couldn’t imagine doing this without her!
God is great! Shout out to all the mothers out there that
will read this post! You are much
appreciated!!
Hugs,
Kelsi and Melanie
Friday, May 8, 2015
Another Week Gone By
I'm sure you're getting sick of me saying, it, but another week is flying by! Next Wednesday we leave for South Luangwa, and the following week is our final week! Kelsi and I cannot believe that our experience is coming to an end so soon.
Some highlights from the past few days:
-Food was our topic of the week. Who doesn't like talking about food? The ladies were especially intrigued when we described hamburgers and hot dogs. My lame description of a hot dog: "There's a skinny bun - bread - with some kind of meat in the middle...It's not actually a dog!" I added quickly as I saw looks of alarm. They were much more interested in trying hamburgers. A couple of the ladies piped up with meal requests: "You must bring that for us!" Kelsi and I are now contemplating how we could find the ingredients for and make burgers for 18 women. The ladies' knowledge of food vocabulary is pretty good from shopping in the grocery stores here, so we also focused on words that describe food. We brought some lemon juice for them to sample to explain "sour," and their faces were priceless.
-We finished learning all of the letters of the alphabet on Monday, so we had a little alphabet party during class today. We played some board races, and the ladies were giggling and slipping on the floor as they ran around the classroom.
-Making steps towards friendship with Chisomo was a major highlight! Chisomo is a little boy of our student Ruth, and he is ADORABLE. In one of our first blog posts, I talked about how I brought a little boy to tears. It was Chisomo! I'm happy to report that he no longer cries when I enter the room, and - get this - he actually smiles and plays peek-a-boo. I hold out my arms every day for a hug, but he still isn't biting. We'll see if he comes around in the next couple weeks.... I was taking pictures of a couple of the kids with Kelsi's phone, and they were laughing hysterically. Chisomo is the one in the front. How cute is he??
Photo cred: Molly Murphy. She got some great pictures from our trip, and we can't wait to share the rest of them with you when we're back in a couple of weeks. (It still seems unreal that we will be back in America in a few short weeks!)
God's blessings on the rest of your week! Kelsi and I continue to thank God every day for the innumerable blessings he grants us. Good night!
Some highlights from the past few days:
-Food was our topic of the week. Who doesn't like talking about food? The ladies were especially intrigued when we described hamburgers and hot dogs. My lame description of a hot dog: "There's a skinny bun - bread - with some kind of meat in the middle...It's not actually a dog!" I added quickly as I saw looks of alarm. They were much more interested in trying hamburgers. A couple of the ladies piped up with meal requests: "You must bring that for us!" Kelsi and I are now contemplating how we could find the ingredients for and make burgers for 18 women. The ladies' knowledge of food vocabulary is pretty good from shopping in the grocery stores here, so we also focused on words that describe food. We brought some lemon juice for them to sample to explain "sour," and their faces were priceless.
-We finished learning all of the letters of the alphabet on Monday, so we had a little alphabet party during class today. We played some board races, and the ladies were giggling and slipping on the floor as they ran around the classroom.
-Making steps towards friendship with Chisomo was a major highlight! Chisomo is a little boy of our student Ruth, and he is ADORABLE. In one of our first blog posts, I talked about how I brought a little boy to tears. It was Chisomo! I'm happy to report that he no longer cries when I enter the room, and - get this - he actually smiles and plays peek-a-boo. I hold out my arms every day for a hug, but he still isn't biting. We'll see if he comes around in the next couple weeks.... I was taking pictures of a couple of the kids with Kelsi's phone, and they were laughing hysterically. Chisomo is the one in the front. How cute is he??
This is unrelated, but here are a few pictures from our trip to Malawi. Better late than never, right?
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| In Mua - what a view! |
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| Our view from the back of the truck from Mua to Dedza. |
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| Wide-eyed children. They looked shocked to see muzungos riding in the back of a truck. |
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| The thumbs up: A classic all over the world. |
Photo cred: Molly Murphy. She got some great pictures from our trip, and we can't wait to share the rest of them with you when we're back in a couple of weeks. (It still seems unreal that we will be back in America in a few short weeks!)
God's blessings on the rest of your week! Kelsi and I continue to thank God every day for the innumerable blessings he grants us. Good night!
Monday, May 4, 2015
I Dream of Tacos
Several
weeks ago, before the Pastor and Mrs. Hartmann left, they introduced us to a
lovely Zambian named Chisomo. We had
gone out to dinner with her and the Hartmanns before they left on
furlough. Pastor Hartmann helped us
exchange numbers so we could hang out later on and that is exactly what we had
the opportunity to do this past Saturday.
On
Saturday Chisomo, Mel, myself and Vicki a friend from Chisomo’s work enjoyed
lunch at Shako’s Grill. We enjoyed a
lunch full of laughs, delicious, food, and stories of living in Zambia. The menu was quite impressive and we all enjoyed
what we had. Chisomo said she normally
plays it safe when ordering but she actually ordered impala for the first
time. Mel and I can now cross that off
the list of foods to try… It was quite
chewy and we both agreed the taste and texture was “interesting”. The restaurant we went to use to be a
Mexican restaurant. As we have noticed,
and Chisomo and Vicki affirmed, there aren’t really any places to get a good
Mexican meal around here. Mel and I are
starting to dream about delicious taco salads and macho nachos. We can’t wait to have this food back home!
Speaking
of tacos, yesterday after church, Mrs. Birner invited us over to her house for
a taco night!! We enjoyed delicious
tacos on tortillas from Mezza and topped them with all the fixings. Molly made a delicious homemade salsa and Mel
made some amazing guacamole. I grated
some cheese. Put it all together with
lettuce, taco meat, plain greek yogurt and we called it deliciousness…
After
dinner Molly, Mel and I enjoyed a campfire with leftover chocolate-covered
Easter bunnies, peanut butter and more marshmallows. We have been so thankful to have such lovely
neighbors and we are equally as thankful for the few more days with have with
both Mrs. Birner and Molly! We have
thoroughly enjoyed their company and are going to miss them so much.
Another
beautiful day in Africa! Soli Deo
Gloria!!
Saturday, May 2, 2015
May Day!
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| Some of the adorable preschoolers on campus. |
The end of another wonderful week...time flies! How is it May already??
Susan invited us to her school on Thursday evening for Stargazing Night. Susan teaches second grade at the Italian International School. She organized this great event for her class for the conclusion of their solar system unit. Molly, Kelsi, and I came along to offer some assistance with her thirty children (super adorable but quite a handful!). The event started off with a game of moon rock tag, then progressed into a jet propulsion experiment, an alien craft, and stargazing through Pastor Birner's telescope. Overall, Susan's hard work paid off, and the night was a huge success. The little children were so cute, and you can't beat their instant love and adoration, but I was exhausted after a few hours! Kelsi was in seventh heaven, though, and the kids flocked to her. Every time I looked at her, a child was hanging off of her or stroking her arm. Her future students are going to be very blessed!
On Friday (May Day - a holiday here) the three missionaries' wives, Molly, Kelsi, and I went to Jackal and Hyde for Lisa's birthday. This was our second time at this great restaurant/shop, and this occasion was equally as wonderful as the first. We browsed through their jewelry, purses, artwork, and textiles before and after a delicious lunch. It was a great treat to enjoy conversation and laughter by the beautiful garden, and we were thankful we were invited along to celebrate for Lisa! :)
As our time dwindles down, Kelsi and I have been answering the following question more often: "Are the women getting a lot better at English?" Kelsi and I would love to respond with a resounding "Yes!" But the truth is, we aren't sure how much they've improved. When we first started teaching, the women were very shy. It took at least two weeks for most of them to open up and really show us how much English they knew. To an outsider, it looked like they had improved leaps and bounds in a short amount of time! Although we aren't sure how much they've learned, we do know a few things.
-They have gained confidence speaking English.
Although they used to be shy when they were asked to speak in front of the class, most of them are now eager to participate in speaking activities. One game that they really enjoy is describing a vocabulary word and trying to get their team to guess it.
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| The spelling game we played on Thursday. It was a big hit! |
Thanks to Kelsi for this one! She introduced a chant that we do every day with them. "Banana banana b-b-buh. B says buh!" We have been adding a letter each class, and Monday will be our final letter - Z! Phonics instruction has been a major focus of our instruction, and we have seen our ladies improve in both their pronunciation and reading as a result.
-They have been exposed to (and are hopefully retaining) new vocabulary words and grammatical rules.
Kelsi and I have been so blessed to be able to work with our funny, sweet, and hard-working students. We continue to pray that God blesses our work, and that he works through us to help the ladies and the children.
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| Notice the women "reading the Bible" in the middle? Nice posing, ladies! :) |
God's blessings on your weekend!
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